Today relationships have been broken so deeply that there is a lack of love. There are those who have been betrayed by their family, friends, jobs, and as they feel, God. The relationship loss of this world even dives into the purpose of life, and feeling that without loyalty there is no life. There is truth here, but loss of self™ comes from an innocence mindset. A mindset that states it won’t happen, shouldn’t happen, or can’t happen to me.
When you have the mindset that nothing bad should happen to you, when it does it causes you to question the very essence that is you. Today, there has been a large increase in adults taking this innocence from children, as well as adults continuing to take the “safe” feeling from other adults. I believe that these individuals are either trying to take what was taken from them, or trying to take what they feel they will never have. I am not sure if it deals with deserving, self-punishment, or something else, but your child is at the center of this.
As your children enter this world, the physical and spiritual aspect of them needs to be addressed so they can be prepared. In relationships and love talking, listening, and taking action steps are the best way to communicate. In preparing your children, speak about strangers, and how negative mindsets, energy, and actions can be taken by others or used within their world. Clarifying that mistakes don’t make a bad person, but bad decisions lead way to explain that consistently making bad decisions does make people “bad people”.
In speaking of “bad people“, talk to them about those who are sneaky. Those who are trying to confuse, lie, cheat, steal, and deceive. In allowing your child to know this, they can become more aware of what life holds in front of them. When you speak to them, use proper terminology and explore as much as you feel comfortable, for the extent your child asks. Letting children know that secrets are bad for everyone creates the standard to tell the truth. Like mine, you may have one that wants to see if they can get away with it. Tell them that their untruths teach you they can’t be believed, but you want to believe them the first time they say something so you can properly protect them.
As a parent or caregiver, don’t believe you have to follow “standards” in life. Stop hindering your child’s actual development because others say they can’t. Give them a chance; they came with wisdom and a need for refinement, just like you. If you believe that these things are too advanced, challenge your thoughts by talking to them using proper terminology and take moments to ask them to repeat what they are understanding. To keep your child safe, you have to be proactive, and get to know how smart they really are. If this is new, it may take a little to get their minds going, but don’t give up, that little one is counting on you!
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