Choosing right in the wrong moments can be hard….oh yes, hello everyone and great to speak to you again. I am starting a new schedule, which I hope you like, but nonetheless, let’s get down to business!
Choosing right in the wrong moments is hard. I once was faced with having to choose myself and protecting my family over helping another person. I can tell you that it was a huge trigger for loss of self™ as I felt I missed saving someone, but from this, I am now going to teach you all about it.
As I chose safety of myself and family, I harbored the scene as I had to turn an eye. It lasted for years until I spoke to someone who said, it was okay because I had to stay safe. They shared that you cannot help another without first being able to help yourself, and I let that sit. Today, I want to share that that person was right.
In loss of self™ and relationships, it’s going to be hard to do the right thing, like fire someone if they don’t follow rules, and it will always seem like the wrong moment. You may be honest, like myself, at a bridal dress try on- going against everyone else in the group- and sitting in the embarrassment of how I felt.
At times, it doesn’t matter if it is truthful, the fact still remains we all want the love and acceptance, and once that seems unstable it becomes uncomfortable. So, what is the lesson here? The lesson is, that if your truth or right may never be at the “right moment” and cause discomfort, then every day, you should be choosing what is right for you! This means that you may need to quit a job, talk a tough topic out, or walk away from a bad relationship.
You will find your tribe. You will find another person. Starting again is not as bad as sitting in spiritual and physical death, just hoping it gets better. Our lives are meant to make us choose because when we choose right in the wrong moments, we can then choose right in any moment, and that creates power. Empower yourself and look at your life or business from a new perspective.
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“I believe that if you understand your broken love, you can change yourself, your relationships, and the world.”
– Samantha Santiago, Ph.D., M.B.A.
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