Most of the time in life we are met with the desire to hoard what we know, or see, because it makes us more powerful. We are the ones that people look to or ask help from, and we control the tone of the moment. We are taught that we are to be the best, but never how to be the best, or what is the best outside of work. The thing is that when we are being the best for work, we are being the best for another’s dream, and that is fine if you want to work for another, but I know deep down we all have a dream. We all have an idea we would like to live, even if it is sitting in silence one more minute a day, and that is where I want to focus.

That one minute can mean nothing to another, it can mean little to an employer, but it means everything to you. To build upon what you want out of life that promotes life, love, and happiness is what we all seek when we do not have responsibilities to tend to, but again, we are never taught to be the best for ourselves, so the majority of us sit and make ends meet. Well, for my birthday, I want to give you a gift, with only one request at the end- that you share my business with those you know, either per review on the website, a social media tag, a share, or even better, getting people to sign up to the newsletter!

My gift to you is this: For those to find life, they must know themselves. Yes, I know it sounds very easy, but in truth it is not. Over the last year I have been developing CONFIDENCE + FAITH to be what you see now. It is the website, the colors, fonts, images, themes, tone, who I want to talk to, naming my tribe, and more. I have gotten my PhD, and went back for more classes, spent months of consecutive hours on it all, and on top of also promoting the information the best I can online, I have written 12 children’s books, the Core 4 Journeys, 1 NEW BOOK, and 4 journals. I have also designed and redesigned shirts, post appearance, the Bible Rave and more. The amount of effort only my husband and children will truly be able to share, is because I was told that I am to minister to the people God places in front of me, and I believe it!

I believe that I have to get this out there because I am part of the Lost and Found SoulCiety (TM) myself. I am at times, and have been, a broken person that has dealt with a lot, but here I am, and I know I am not alone. There are so many people who are rejecting the pain because it is easier, they are lost in the world, but do not see a door of light for them, and it is time that we all do. I am the product of a divorced home, feeling alone, not fitting in, finding love in the wrong relationships, using the positive desire of connection which turned into alcoholism, I know what it is like to be scared an feel alone while you fail at every turn that could possibly be thrown your way, and create the steel walls that protect your very essence because you don’t know how else to stop the world from crumbling your very being.

For my birthday, I want to share that the pain that you hide does not go away, and the tears will not fade, but if you are doing your best for another, and not yourself, you are missing the life that wisdom can only provide. You are lacking the ability to Move Forward in Love and come to a place where less hurts, and more is processing and building. CONFIDENCE + FAITH is built on a young girl who has done a lot when put on paper, but always held her head high, EVEN when she had to humbly come back to God and rebuild to a point where she could ask God to see the true Him (this is where THM was developed). My life is not as hard as others’, but for me, it was hard in its own way, and to HAPPILY celebrate my 34th birthday this year, is me doing my best!

You are someone who deserves to go through it all, find the clarity, and realize that you can have a life even after the pain, it just takes time. If you are still asking, “what happened to me”, then you are not doing your best, and you lost yourself. Yes, life can be made within that new reality, but it is not the right reality. You will not feel eternal love from God, but a yearning to find more substance in life, people like you, and a group to call you own, and I want to gift you with that. I want to share and REL8, clarify and uproot, encourage and guide, but most of all, I want you to develop your sustaining techniques that will place you on the path of life through wisdom (or life’s lessons).

I am asking today that you take this tribe, family, or party as seriously as air is to you, so that you can live the best life you can, but I want you to share it because there are those around you who need it too, and they just don’t know where to look. In sharing CONFIDENCE + FAITH, you may be their blessing in disguise, because they are dying inside, but no matter what I want you to know that in this life, you are NOT alone, you are loveable, and you can live your dreams, so start doing the best for you as if today is your birthday as well!

“For those who find me find life…”

Proverbs 8:35